Shani Jay
Thought Catalog
Indonesia
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Past articles by Shani:
Love Is A Choice, And This Is Why I Choose To Love You
I choose to stand in the fire beside you. → Read More
Date Someone Who Makes You Feel Loved
Your heart always knows when it feels genuine love, and when it feels unsure. → Read More
This Is Why I Will Always Choose Love
When we choose love, we create more love. → Read More
If You’re Looking For Love To Make You Whole Again, Read This
If you’re looking for a love to make you whole again, don’t look out there. → Read More
9 Gentle Reminders For When You’re Afraid You Can’t Write Anymore
Just listen. → Read More
9 New Year’s Resolutions For The Girls Learning To Love Themselves
“I will leave yesterday in the past, and focus on today.” → Read More
My Boyfriend Took Two Years To Say ‘I Love You’ And It Was Completely Worth The Wait
I empathize with him. → Read More
To My Fellow Goddesses—This Is Where Your Power Lives
Goddess – your power lives inside of you. → Read More
He Won’t Complete You Because You Are Already Whole
Here’s the problem with that: it teaches us that we are incomplete as we are. → Read More
7 Reasons Why You Have Trouble Breaking Up With Fuckboys
We are taught that we are incomplete as singletons, and that our sole mission in life is to find “the one” so that we can finally feel complete. → Read More
I Dare You To Not Love Yourself Today
I dare you to face your mirror, and not look at that incredible human staring back at you, with an endless ocean of love and appreciation. → Read More
To All The Beautiful Souls Who Feel Unloved Today
Someone feels the sadness aching between the walls of you, and prays for it to be gone. → Read More
This Is What It Really Means To Love Your Body
Criticize or abuse it too much, and it will begin to shut down and disconnect itself from your heart. → Read More
17 Reasons Why You Should Always Listen To Your Heart
Following your heart will help you figure out what truly matters to you, and what doesn’t. You will begin to understand your soul on a much higher level, and start to live your life at the same lev… → Read More
27 Things I Wish I Could Tell Every Teenage Girl
You are not the number of followers, likes or comments your photos get online. Period. → Read More
This Is The Secret Joy In Treating Your Mondays Like Fridays
I’ve been feeling tidal waves of gratitude, and love for the life I now get to live. → Read More
Bullshit, No Girl Is Born Hating Herself
There are women who you’d think have the perfect lives, and the perfect body to match, but even they struggle with the reflection they see in the mirror. → Read More
Mumma Always Told Me There’d Be Guys Like You
She told me to always leave, and never look back. → Read More
To My Fellow Women: You Don’t Need The Garbage The World Is Trying To Sell You
We start to believe we’re not beautiful as we are. → Read More
This For Every Time You’ve Said ‘It’s Okay’ When It Was Anything But
It’s not okay. → Read More