Scott Gilman, The Good Men Project

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Past articles by Scott:

Finding a New Doctor Feels Like Dating

I need to find someone out of the blue who I trust with my body — and it’s a daunting task. → Read More

Nature at the Door: We Don’t Have to Go Looking for Nature — It’s Coming to Us

We didn’t do well enough with a sense of wonder. We exploited and destroyed, we consumed for pleasure, ease and luxury. → Read More

What Is a Significant Other Even For?

From singles to divorcees, collectively we are struggling to define what we need and want from long-term partners. → Read More

Sex as a Man Post-Roe

What once was pure joy and pleasure is now fraught with worry and consequence. Yet for women, that’s always been the case. → Read More

It’s Not About Babies, It’s About Sex

The sexual revolution is still being fought. With attacks on contraception looming, the battle has arrived at our bedrooms. → Read More

Aren’t We ‘Hardened’ Enough?

Mass shootings are the symptoms. The diseases are misogyny and extremism. → Read More

Restricting Abortion Steals Freedom — And Perpetuates Inequality

Laws imposing forced births strip away self-determination— creating a two-tiered society of who does and doesn’t have bodily autonomy. → Read More

The Battle for Equality: How Do We Get Men More Involved?

Ask an Ally: With privilege and freedom comes responsibility. → Read More

No More Turning Away: Why Austin Must Reject Proposition B

The results of Proposition B won’t solve Austin’s homelessness problem. But it will tell us how we’ll deal with it and who we are. → Read More

Give Back the Night

Men must get in the fight to end sexual abuse and violence against women. → Read More

Is Sex That Great? Thanks to the Pandemic, I Can’t Remember

Fantasizing about sex is one thing. Recalling what makes it magical is another. → Read More

A Jewish Space Laser Is Absurd. But So Is Antisemitism.

Since antisemitism is rooted in ignorance and bigotry, one specious claim is no more crazy than the one before it. → Read More

There Can Be No Unity Without Truth

It’s tempting, because it’s easier, to resolve a fight with calls for coming together. But a desire for healing is not enough. → Read More

What Will First-Time Pandemic Sex Be Like?

First-time sex with someone new is exciting. But how will months of social isolation make this first time different? → Read More

In Love, There Is No ‘Delete History’

In love, deleting your history is far more complicated than clicking a link. → Read More

Are You Strong Enough To Be a Better Man?

Changing what we value in strength will help us redefine masculinity for the better. → Read More

What Men Say When They Won’t Stop Talking

Interrupting and talking over others is not just boorish and rude. It’s a means of dis-empowering and silencing. → Read More

If There Were No Men

A thought experiment serves as a reminder of the space we occupy — and share. → Read More

The Hardest — but Most Important — Part of Break-Up Recovery

‘Letting go’ is easier said than done, but it’s the only way to truly recover from a break-up, separation or divorce. → Read More

Are Apologies Selfish?

An apology is just words; to be meaningful, it must be a commitment to change behavior. → Read More