Thomas G. Fiffer
The Good Men Project
Westport, CT, United States
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Past articles by Thomas:
An Idiot's Guide to Surviving the Coronavirus
It's a deadly serious situation, but panicking won't help a bit. → Read More
The Meaning of Touch
A meditation on connection. → Read More
Fear of Intimacy and Shame: The Unconscious Saboteurs
How to overcome shame and fear of intimacy to create healthy relationships. → Read More
Emotional Intelligence: Learning to Accept Personal Responsibility
Being responsible for your actions is a critical part of recovery. → Read More
Am I My Brother's Keeper? The Questionable Ethics of Fraternities
An article about a string of accidents leads the Ethics Editor to some disturbing questions. → Read More
7 Ugly Reasons We Cling When We Should Leave
Thomas Fiffer wonders why we hold out in horrible relationships---and unearths 7 ugly ties that bind. → Read More
The Truth About Honesty
Many people confuse honesty and truth. The Good Men Project's Ethics Editor swears he knows the difference. → Read More
My Relationship Sucks. Could the Problem Be Me?
When there's trouble at home, we're quick to avoid blame and point the finger. But what if we're the problem? These three questions can determine if you might be the primary cause of strife. → Read More
5 Words on Love That Will Make or Break Your Relationship
An ordinary object leads Thomas Fiffer to an extraordinary epiphany. → Read More
5 Reasons Why Consent Doesn't Come Naturally
Consent should be simple, right? Then why is it so confusing? → Read More
7 Ways to Build Better Men
Men are good and want to be better. Thomas Fiffer offers seven ways men can improve their game. → Read More
Taming Your Brain Through Mindfulness
Learn how to decrease your susceptibility to negative thought patterns. → Read More
'Be a Man'-The Cruelest Words We Can Speak to Our Sons
How the language of disrespect destroys self-esteem and empowers violent behavior. → Read More
Real Narcissists—Early Warning Signs
"Rethinking Narcissism" author Dr. Craig Malkin discusses the reliable signs of narcissism. → Read More
A Theory on the Role of Love in Abuse
Both abusers and victims claim they love and are loved by their partners. Thomas Fiffer tries his best to explain why. → Read More
Five Lies It's OK to Tell Your Children
Shocking Revelation: The Good Men Project's Ethics Editor lies to his kids. → Read More
Is This Love? Ask Yourself These 3 Questions When You 'Got to Know'
The thrill of love is like no other experience. Or is it? Answering these three questions will tell you if it's really love---or something else---that you're feelin'. → Read More
The Forgiveness Syndrome: Understanding the Payoff We Get From Screwing Up
We all love the feeling of being forgiven. But to be forgiven, we have to hurt someone first. → Read More
Five Simple Don'ts That Free You to Do What You Love
Avoid these five pitfalls, and you're well on your way to the life of your dreams. → Read More
10 Feelings That Imitate Love
Each of these 10 feelings can feel exactly like love. Here's how to tell whether you're experiencing the real thing or you've just been bewitched. → Read More