Winifred Reilly, The Good Men Project

Winifred Reilly

The Good Men Project

Berkeley, CA, United States

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Recent:
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Past:
  • The Good Men Project
  • xoJane.com
  • HuffPost

Past articles by Winifred:

Why Happy People Cheat

We can assure ourselves that affairs only happen because of broken people or broken relationships but do we really think millions of people are pathological? → Read More

Articles by Winifred Reilly

Winifred M. Reilly, MA, MFT, is a psychotherapist specializing in marital therapy and relationship issues, with a private practice in Berkeley, CA. She is the author of the relationship advice blog Speaking of Marriage and a forthcoming book that explains why relationships are so predictably frustrating and difficult and shows what couples can do besides fight, give up or drive each other crazy.… → Read More

How to be Happily Married in a World of Naysayers

Some of the worst marriages I've seen have gotten as bad as they are because neither partner is willing to risk: to apologize, to reach out, to be vulnerable, to name what needs to be addressed. Remember, you have to step out of your comfort zone if you want your marriage to grow. → Read More

10 Everyday Relationship Issues That Aren't Worth Freaking Out About

You can feel bored, wish they'd change, or wonder if you've made the right choice and still be in the right relationship. → Read More

7 Marriage Truths I Wish I'd Known As A Newlywed

With wedding season in full bloom, this post is my gift to those of you who are just starting out. Here's the advice I wish I'd been given as a newlywed, rather than having had to figure it out on my own.... → Read More

The Surprising Truth About What Makes Happy Couples Happy

Happy couples don't always make "I-statements" or start every argument with a gratitude. They don't feel Fourth-of-July-fireworks each and every time they make love -- nor do they expect to.... → Read More

9 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Filing For Divorce

None of us gets married thinking that five, ten, even twenty years down the line we'd be so frustrated or miserable that we'd be considering divorce. Most of us step into marriage with hope and enthusiasm, determined to have ours be a marriage that l... → Read More

10 Marriage Vows You Couldn't Possibly Have Known To Make On Your Wedding Day

Let's be honest. Most of us are more likely to upgrade the operating system on our iPhone than to revise the vows that we made at our wedding.... → Read More

10 Dumb Relationship Issues You Need To Quit Getting Worked Up About

Winifred Reilly sees couples giving these issues too much air time … and thinks we’d all be happier if we’d quit letting them dictate our behavior. → Read More

10 Dumb Relationship Issues You Need To Quit Getting Worked Up About

Winifred Reilly sees couples giving these issues too much air time ... and thinks we'd all be happier if we'd quit letting them dictate our behavior. → Read More

How to Have the Conversations You Dread Having With Your Spouse

Winifred Reilly wants you to know how to have the conversations you'd rather not have with your spouse. → Read More

35 Things I've Learned In 35 Years Of Marriage

This week, we will celebrate our 35th wedding anniversary. Does that mean we discovered the "secret"? Hardly. Have we learned something? Definitely! And thank goodness for that. → Read More