Dan Savage
Pittsburgh CityPaper
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Savage Love
In a recent column, you said you never hear from married couples whose sex life got better and more frequent over the years. Well, now you have. → Read More
Savage Love
Without snooping, I came across texts between my wife “Mary” and a guy “Jeremy” of a very sexual nature. While I would be okay if she were doing this and I knew about it, this has been going on since before we met. → Read More
Savage Love
A sexually frustrated international drug dealer is arguably more dangerous than a sexually satisfied international drug dealer. → Read More
Savage Love
First let me say that I think you give excellent advice, even if it is a bit pedestrian at times. I have a small problem: Last fall, my penis bent up and to the left at an almost 90-degree angle. → Read More
Savage Love
I wish I had a better question, but this is all I have: My friends and I were discussing the nuances of a straight orgy (a roughly equal number of male and female participants) versus a gang bang (one woman, many men), and we observed that there is no proper name for a one man, many women situation. The internet tells me it’s just a “reverse gang bang,” which is a very disappointing name. → Read More
Savage Love
I’m a straight male in my 30s. I’ve been with my wife for 12 years. → Read More
Savage Love
You could go with a grand, romantic, and slightly demented gesture. → Read More
Savage Love
I visited Royal Oak, Mich., for Savage Love Live, at the Royal Oak Music Theatre. I didn’t get to all of the questions submitted by the large and tipsy crowd — a crowd that skipped the Stormy Daniels interview on 60 Minutes to spend the evening with me (so honored, you guys!) → Read More
Savage Love
We’re no longer allowed to express doubt about someone’s professed sexual orientation. → Read More
Savage Love
Great sex and a good friendship make up a solid foundation. → Read More
Savage Love
I’m a professional dominatrix, and I thought I’d seen everything in the last five years. But this situation completely baffled the entire dungeon. → Read More
Savage Love
As a 36-year-old straight woman with autism, I am often misidentified as lesbian because my social signaling must read as masculine. I am not bothered by this. → Read More
Savage Love
I used to be a fan of your column, Dan, but something happened to you. Maybe it’s stress, the current political climate, or some other issue — I don’t know. → Read More
Savage Love
I’m a straight man in a live-in relationship with a beautiful woman. There are no sparks in bed, and it’s been more than a year since we’ve had sex. → Read More
Savage Love
I’m a 40-year-old bi man. I’ve been with my 33-year-old bi wife for three years and married for one. When we first met, she made it clear that she was in a long-term (more than three years) “Daddy” relationship with an older man. I figured out six months later that her “Daddy” was her boss and business partner. → Read More
Savage Love
I am a pretty handsome gay (I have been told), and I am dating a gorgeous man. I am 34, and he is 31. I am bottom only, and he is top only — so it’s a good match. → Read More
Savage Love
In a frank exchange early in our courtship, I told my girlfriend that I have no kinks. As a faithful reader of Savage Love, I’m obviously not opposed to kinks — but I’ve never had any inclinations in that direction and am probably a typical hetero vanilla. → Read More
Savage Love
My only child is 16 years old. He was curious about sex from a very young age and very open with me, so his interest in sexual matters gave me ample opportunity to talk with him about safety and consent. → Read More
Savage Love
I’m a 22-year-old straight male dating a 23-year-old woman. This is by far the most sexual relationship I’ve been in, which is great, except one part is freaking me out: I recently “caught” my girlfriend masturbating with her roommate’s panties. → Read More
Dan Savage takes questions from a live studio audience
Donald Trump is president and we could all be dead tomorrow. Don’t delay. → Read More