Matthew Fray, The Good Men Project

Matthew Fray

The Good Men Project

Ohio, United States

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Recent:
  • Unknown
Past:
  • The Good Men Project
  • YourTango
  • news.com.au
  • The Sun Newspaper
  • HuffPost

Past articles by Matthew:

Why Relationship Arguments Can Actually Be Good Things (Video)

Relationship conflict is not this horrible thing that must be eliminated at all costs, but instead something to embrace as a necessary component of building sustainable trust with the person I’ve promised to love forever (or really—with just about anyone). → Read More

Why Your Spouse Is Never Happy No Matter What You Do (Video)

Many people (usually men) type into internet search engines: “my wife is never happy no matter what I do.” → Read More

The Missing Ingredient That Ruins Valentine’s Day (and Every Other Day)

She, or he, wants to be considered because they are a person. → Read More

Are You Afraid When the Elevator Doors Open?

We don’t hurt the people we love because we’re bad. → Read More

What It Means When Your Partner Says You Always Make Everything About You

Now I think I get it. → Read More

An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands, Vol. 15

Trust is the thing your relationship requires most to stay healthy. → Read More

The Two Reoccurring Moments That Destroy Trust in Relationships

We destroy trust—and as a result, our relationships—by recycling two moments over and over again. → Read More

Maybe Your Marriage Sucks Because You Don’t Really Know Your Spouse

It makes sense when you’re a dipshit who has no idea that you’re a dipshit. (*points at self) → Read More

Taking the Wheel vs. Destroying Our Marriages on Autopilot

The alternative is to believe that the two of you are intentionally sabotaging one another and the relationship. → Read More

Break Toxic Communication Habits With the STFU Method

Stop making it about you. Make it about them. → Read More

Where To Find Solutions to Your Relationship Problems

The places you wouldn’t think to look. → Read More

Save Your Marriage Using the Monster-Under-the-Bed Theory

Maybe you text or call others to share the tragic news. → Read More

What Being Drugged and Robbed Taught Me About Rape Culture

I kept thinking and saying: Thank God it was me and not her. → Read More

The Idea That Would Have Saved My Marriage and Might Save Yours

My wife wanted to feel loved. Cherished. Respected. Desired. → Read More

Here’s How They Chop Hot Women in Half

There are the invisible things that hurt. → Read More

The Mistake Smart People Make That Causes Divorce and Other Miserable Things

The reason we have conflict with the people we are closest to is because we’re smart. All of us. → Read More

This Is Why Your Wife Hates You

You are at the epicenter of that fear, anger, and pain. → Read More

Would You Leave Your Spouse Over Dirty Dishes?: A Lesson on Conflict Management

Where to set the dish is a conflict of preference. But the way in which we treat our marriage partner is a value. → Read More

How To Respond to Your Emotional Spouse Without Making Things Worse

Trying to correct someone else’s emotions is a recipe for destroying your relationship with them. → Read More

Must Women Leave Men To Get Them To Change?

People divorce because they don’t know how to explain what’s wrong from the other person’s point of view. → Read More