Heather Havrilesky, New York Magazine

Heather Havrilesky

New York Magazine

California, United States

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Recent:
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Past:
  • New York Magazine
  • Salon.com
  • Vulture
  • Washington Post

Past articles by Heather:

A Letter From Keith Edwards

SPONSOR STORY: We are so excited to present our 2019 listing of the top-rated New York City Women Leaders In The Law and Family Lawyers. → Read More

10 years ago: “The Sopranos” goes dark

From the Salon Archives: Recap of the powerful, maddening ending to HBO's groundbreaking mobster show → Read More

Ask Polly: I’m a Stepmom, But I Want a Baby of My Own!

This is a completely understandable desire. → Read More

Option B and Sheryl Sandberg’s Impossible Position

What her new book shows us about being a woman in the public eye. → Read More

Ask Polly: Men Are Too Intimidated to Date Me!

Your assumptions are getting in your way. → Read More

Ask Polly: My Married Friends Are Driving Me Crazy!

Here’s what you should do: Nothing. → Read More

Ask Polly: My Ex-Friends Think I’m Selfish and Terrible!

Were they ever really your friends in the first place? → Read More

Ask Polly: Is Life All Downhill From Here?

Don’t assume that the future is even worse that the present. → Read More

Ask Polly: What Am I Doing Wrong With Men?

You think you have to be on all the time. → Read More

Ask Polly: Now That We’re in Our 30s, My Friends Are Abandoning Me!

Sometimes people just don’t show up for you. → Read More

Ask Polly: What Does Love Feel Like?

Get a dog and find out! → Read More

Ask Polly: My Friend Says I’m Always Competing With Her for Men!

Is she really your friend? → Read More

Ask Polly: Why Does My Terrible Ex Get to Be So Happy?

Your question isn’t really about your ex. → Read More

Ask Polly: I Quit My Job to Have a Baby – Then I Had a Miscarriage

Why is it so hard for women to talk about these things? → Read More

Ask Polly: Why Do I Only Want Unavailable Men?

It’s easy to give your love to someone who doesn’t care. → Read More

Ask Polly: Am I Pretty?

What would be different if you were? → Read More

Ask Polly: I Overshared My Way Out of a Boyfriend!

Your oversharing is an insecure, impulsive attempt to fix everything. → Read More

Ask Polly: I Got Sick, Dumped, and Fired. What Now?

This is an incredible moment in your life. → Read More

Ask Polly: Men Are the Worst, and I’m Married to One!

Don’t turn the story of ignorant white men into a story about your actual husband. → Read More

Ask Polly: My Boyfriend’s Friends Don’t Like Me!

Don’t be so quick to see rejection. → Read More