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Past articles by Hyapatia:
Stoner Sex: Sexual Orientation, Pill Popping & How to Be a Porn Star
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Stoner Sex: Bedtime Smoke Seshes, Swallowing and S&M
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Stoner Sex: Erections, Age Gaps, Public Sex & Strange Situations ·
Dear Hyapatia, The doctor wants to put me on some medication that will make it hard for me to get an erection. I don’t like that side effect, but he ... → Read More
Stoner Sex: Broken Penises, Female Ejaculation, Low Sex Drive & Birth Control
Dear Hyapatia, My boyfriend and I heard something that shocked us. Is it true that it is possible to break a penis? I know it is called a boner, but I didn’t think there was really a bone in there to break. How does this work? — Jason and Maria Dear Jason and Maria, Yes! It is true! Although there is no bone in it, once it is erect and filled with blood, to bend it would be a very bad… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Lazy Lovers, Single Ladies, Vets & Poppin’ Pills
Dear Hyapatia, My guy and I get high all the time. When we have sex, he has a hard time staying awake. I think he smokes too much weed. If we waited until after sex to smoke, he wouldn’t be so tired and such a lazy lover. As soon as he comes, he falls asleep. I want to snuggle a bit and talk about things. How can I get him to wait until after sex to smoke and fall asleep? — Jenny Dear Jenny, If… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Uncircumcised Cocks, Summer Fun, How to Give Good Head & Swinging
Dear Hyapatia, I am having an embarrassing problem. I go out with many girls. We all have a great time. Then after a few dates, we start to get more romantic and sexual. That is when the problem comes. I am not circumcised, and I guess most guys around here are because all the girls seem kinda surprised and timid once they get a good look at my dick. That is usually the last I see of them. I… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Passing Out Before Pulling Out, Road Trips & Bad Bed Behavior
Dear Hyapatia, I am very happy with my relationship with my boyfriend. I have no complaints. He takes care of me, in and out of bed, and I have a great time with him. He is fun to be around and makes love like an expert. Sometimes he falls asleep right away after sex. That is fine with me, he makes sure I cum before he does. I let him lay there for a while on top of me. It feels nice to know he… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Rekindling Old Flames, Suicidal Thoughts, Jealousy & Period Sex
Dear Hyapatia, I love my girlfriend very much, and sex with her is some of the best sex I have ever had. She is wild and passionate all in one. I don’t want to be gross or anything, but my girlfriend wants to have sex at all times… if you know what I mean. I personally do not like to have sex when it is “that time of the month.” She takes this personally. I have tried to explain that I have… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Big Dreams, Small Dicks, Dry Spells & Bottoming from the Top
Dear Hyapatia, My old man won’t grow up. He is in his late 30’s, and he plays guitar, and he still thinks that one of these days he is going to be a famous guitar player in a big band that tours the world. It is a nice pipe dream. I like to dream big too, but after all this time and at this age, I would have thought that he would have realized it just isn’t going to happen. It might be different… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Cheating Liars, Getting Pussy Whipped, Hurt Feelings & Sexy Lingerie
Dear Hyapatia, I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I have thought it for a while now, but last night, this guy called and said his wife was cheating on him with my boyfriend and he wanted me to know. I really think he is cheating, and I would probably dump him for it—except that he has the best weed around. I can do with something less quality, but it would really suck, you know. So I am… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Dating Virgins, Obsessive Gardening, Big Talks & Cheating
Dear Hyapatia, My girlfriend is a virgin. She says she wants me to be her first. I have tried, but she is so tight, and I don’t want to hurt her. She says it hurts, so I stop. Then, later on, she is frustrated that we didn’t do it. She has suggested she try having sex with another guy first as I am rather large. I have a friend who is not as big as I am, and he is thinking about it. Do you think… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Tech Challenges, Cheating Assholes & Hard (Pun Intended) Questions
Dear Hyapatia, My wife spends all her spare time on the computer. She doesn’t sit and get high with me while we watch TV like she used to. We never have a good conversation that isn’t interrupted by a ding on her computer which takes her away from me and back to that damn thing. She gets high while on the computer, and I am thinking about telling her I would really prefer she not smoke there. I… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Making Out, Celibacy, Sneaking Around & Smoking in Bed
Hyapatia, My lady and I smoke a lot of weed, but she smokes a bit more than I do. When we make out, she is always really stoned. Just once, I would like to see what it is like to make out without being high. I haven’t asked her yet, and I think she will be OK with that, but I am now having second thoughts. Maybe it will be bad, and I will find out she really isn’t into me. Should I go through… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Transitioning, Sex Addiction, Dirty Talk & Cock Blockin’ Dogs
Hello Hyapatia, My name is Diedra, and I am currently taking hormones in preparation for my sex reassignment surgery. I am a woman trapped in a man’s body. I have done all kinds of therapy and am finally getting my dream come true. I don’t want anything to make it less than as successful as it can be, which brings me to smoking weed. I smoke, a lot. Should I stop smoking? I am afraid to tell my… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Broken Penises, Squirting, Easy Bondage & Weed Whores
Dear Hyapatia, I was having beautiful sex with my girlfriend, when her big dog jumped on the bed and my dick got bent really bad. It has hurt ever since. I don’t want to go to the doctor, but it has been three days now. Am I going to be like this forever? — Mark Dear Mark, It is possible to break your penis. In this case, you would wear a brace or cast and refrain from sexual activity for a… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Practicing Patience, Psoriasis, Dangerous Flirting & Expectations
Hyapatia, I am a stay-home mother of two children under five. My husband works a regular eight-hour day. Taking care of two kids, a house and all the business of running a home, I get stressed out during the day, and when I put the kids down for a nap, I usually smoke a joint. This pisses my husband off. He wishes I would wait for him to come home. He says it isn’t fair because he can’t smoke… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Bedroom Gardens, Dank Dating, Manipulation and Cum in the Eye
Dear Hyapatia, My boyfriend grows weed and has a huge garden in our spare bedroom. It takes up the whole room. I have been squeezing and downsizing in order to make it all fit. I am getting tired of it. I need the extra space for so many things. How can we cut down the garden size without starting World War Three? — Crowded Dear Crowded, The smaller the garden, the less pot you will have. I… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Personal Pot Preferences, Experimentation, Gloria Leonard & Boning in Bed
Dear Hyapatia, I am having a problem with my dude that may not seem very big to most people, but hear me out. He likes to smoke joints. I like to smoke a bong or a pipe. I think he wastes too much pot in a joint, and we go through our stash faster that way. He says I am nuts and that we go through it just as fast either way. When we vape, it goes really quick, we both agree on that one. It… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Real Buzz Kills, Communication Troubles, Sex Films & the Golden Age of Porn
Dear Hyapatia, I work in a gentlemen’s club as a dancer with about 20 other girls. We all share a dressing room but have separate lockers. Our manager is really cool, and we get high back there on our breaks. We take turns bringing smoke. Whenever I take some buds in, my boyfriend throws a hissy fit. He thinks I should only smoke with him and never anyone else or by myself. I feel like he is… → Read More
Stoner Sex: Pot Haters, Comfort Zones, Clit Contact & Talking Dirty
Dear Hyapatia, My girlfriend is really starting to bug me about a few things, but I don’t want to leave her. She is beautiful and smart and there are many good things about her, it is just that she’s got this thing against pot. She says she hates the smell, doesn’t like having sex with me when I am high and shit like that. I’m not really good at dealing with all that. I never know what to say… → Read More